Appreciating life's gifts

Children are such a wonderful gift and being a part of a child's life is a blessing in itself. I am fortunate to have been involved with many kids and teens through out my life. Playing with kids has been my way of relaxing for most of my adult life. The smiles, the giggles and the joy that I get to feel as these angels share moments of their lives with me has been my most treasured life experiences.

On our way home this afternoon, Justin and I were listening to a talk show on the radio. The discussion was about family dinner and how much it means to everyone involved. They were commenting on the bonding experience you share as you interact with your children around the dinner table. As simple as this concept maybe to some it was clear through the callers reactions that sit-down dinners are on the endangered species list. This sparked a discussion between Justin and I about how we would like to raise our family.

The ideas were flowing and the host on the show mentioned the issue of letting kids invite friends to the table. I, for one, loved having my friends break bread with my family. Many of them became like family and started to call my mom, mom instead of Ms. Harris or Wendy. That was a tradition passed down by my maternal grandmother, Nanny, who always had a spot for the neighborhood at her table. No joke I still have people coming up to me telling me stories of eating at my Nanny's house in the hallway because the priests, teachers and most of the students were all at her house for lunch and dinner. (She lived across the street from my mother's school and had an open door policy when meal time came around)

Justin had a different experience, he was that little boy going over to his friend's house for dinner. He wanted to call the radio show to say that for every family who opens the door to invite someone for supper, they are shaping that child in very powerful and positive way. He has always spoke of his neighbour's generosity with such love and appreciation, he would not be the same person he is today without being welcomed into such a loving home. This is what we want for our kids. A place where they can invite their friends to be a part of our family traditions. For Justin it's his way of paying forward his amazing experience.